Hubby only helps if he is tipsy😫😥

I don't know if I'm totally being selfish or I'm a nagger I don't know. Maybe it's the pregnancy hormones that get the best of me. I am currently 5 months pregnant.💖 & working 2 part time jobs and taking 5 classes. I work 7 days a week every other week and 6 days a week every other week. On Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays I have class in the morning and go to work after class. I get home around 8 or 9 these days. I work at a call center so it's not too terribly exhausting but it is at the same time. And Tuesdays and Thursdays I work at a preschool 7 to 3. & I have night classes both days. On Saturdays I work 9 to 4. And when we are open on every other Sunday I work 12 to 4 and then it starts all over the next day. 😪😪 Now hubbys schedule is a little more laid back. He works Friday Saturday and Sunday 5 am to 530 pm and doesn't work the rest of the week. His job is mostly factory work. So he gets home tired and either I have food ready or we go out to eat on these days but I do make sure the house is clean. Now on the weekdays where he doesnt work I come home to the house being a mess, no dishes washed etc. I try to avoid saying anything because I don't want to argue but lately I've been coming home more irritated and i decided to give him a list to do for the day. He refuses to do any of it unless he is drinking or drunk. I told him the first couple times that was fine but now it's getting annoying that the only way he'll help is if he is out of it. Sometimes I have to come home to make food for us after working and my feet are killing me. I Just wish he could understand that altho my job doesn't require heavy lifting and such doesn't mean I don't get tired. I just needed to let this all out cause I'm tired of just locking myself in the room at night and crying it out.