I really didn't want to post this but i know i need to talk to someone about it.My husband and i finally moved to our home and he's been in the military in 11 months and we are at his duty station. I know while he lived in the barracks he would rough house with the guys. well he brought it home. Now my husband has never been rough with me before and has never been aggravated over tiny things ever. since we been hes either gripped me a little to hard or starts to nag about things he knows will be handled. Just this week over talked to him about being careful about how he talks to me and how aggressive he's being but playfully. somehow i can no longer see it just being on accident but him not knowing how strong he is . This whole week has me upset because it has escalated. Monday i was just hugging him and he throws me to the side of the couch where its been worn down. so i hit a wooden piece and i have a huge bruise. wednesday i was walking up the stairs and he was chasing me to be funny and he throws a sandal at the back of my leg. Causing yet another bruise. finally yesterday i was laying with him and he pushes me off of him because he was hot and he shoves his hand on my throat and not letting off until had to scratch him to let him know he was choking me. he knows that he's hurting me and he keeps telling me its an accident and hes sorry but today even.. today i kissed him and made him dinner as soon as he walked through the door ( daily routine) and he just gets excited and grabs me and squeezes a little too hard until Im out of breath. Am I just over reacting or should i do something about this?