Beastly Friends

In y'all have people in your lives you are considering cutting them out for some way they treat you, just straight up ask them I legit mean this, I kept a "friendship" going because I was always to afraid to ask why she was so freaking mean. Well background story we were friends in junior high so maybe 7th-8th grade, then communications dropped after that because we both went to different schools in different states. Then she suddenly BOOM became friends with me again because we both were due just a few months apart with our babies she has a boy,and I have a girl. Now let me tell you what this bitch dragged me through from August 2016 to August 2017 after I asked her the simple question, "honestly why are you always so mean to me?" to clarify her babies father( I will only use this term because it's more respectful but this scumbag doesn't deserve it) in October she had her baby shower i was the only non-relative to show not even the sons father had shown up but he lived 10 minutes away, fast-forward a couple months she's needed help getting ready for her baby so I had bought at least $200-$300 worth of clothing, a stroller, binkys, bibs, and probably diapers for her. Now during this time she had included me in her drama, baby-momma drama. Y'all so every down low dirty thing she had to say about her fathers child was coming out, and she was always asking me for help because he wasn't there but who was? Me, I'm easily manipulated and to state I could've turned my head and walked away but I didn't because I thought we were so close just because the idea of having another mom friend was totally fucking awesome since our kids would be close in age. To continue the closer she got the more appointments she needed, but her child's father wasn't around, not even the appointments and her family didn't take her from what she told me, "you're the only who helps me not even my family does" but now I realize it's just manipulative words to sound helpless and make me feel good about myself to only come back to help her more, and to add she has never ever tried to pay me back not even when she had a job. Now to when she's having her baby, she's in the hospital of the town I live and after helping with her during her pregnancy I EXPECTED to be apart of this, sorely I am wrong and I mean not during her delivery but least after to visit her and the baby. But nope this girl was in labor for 48 hours and had to have a C-section and I wasn't alerted but I was worried, but still no word but I did stop by previously to give her flowers. And within that week I'm in the delivery unit at 28 weeks because I'm going into preterm labor, and did she stop by at all? Nope, my close friend was willing to drive an 1 1/2 just to see me at 12 in the morning but I was worried about her safety so I told her to stay home(But lord these are the types of friends you NEED in your life) and within the week of this incident happening she is asking me to take her to a nearby town in her home state to get a restraining order on her child's father, and apply for cash assistance. Even though I told her it could happen that I could have my baby she still is saying no that it won't happen and we should just go, so we did my boyfriend, her, me, and her sister mind you I asked for her to help pay for gas and she gets defensive. few weeks later she's telling me how they got into a fight he hit her, and she smashed a beer bottle on his head and i comfort her I'm like, " you're to beautiful for this guy you can do so much better." And her responses were always basically agreeing but then she goes back and starts treating me like shit, and back this if you're still reading this I asked "honestly why are you always so mean to me?" Y'all she had the fucking Audacity to tell me, " because that's her family, her fiancé, her son, and the way I treat my daughter." My daughter is four months old going on five, and I take care of her I've only had to ask my parents for help with formula maybe 2 times? So her clothes, any items she has me and my SO have paid for. And let me clarify something before they got back together and she started being a bitch he had choked her out, and she was in the hospital for an OD. Remember if you have some friend in your life that has made it hell and abused your friendship please cutt them off let this be a crazy ass lesson, I might be an idiot in this situation but I'm not looking to get bashed I'm looking to show people how some friendships aren't worth the struggle because one side benefits while the other suffers