So much misinformation about shaving your 🍑.... l

As I'm thinking about becoming sexually active, the issue of bumpy, razor-rash skin has started to become a large problem for me. Now that shaving my nitchita will become part of a more frequent hygiene routine, I desperately need tips. I've watched countless YouTube videos- they all contradict each other! Some say never shave without shaving cream, some say always shave with shaving cream. Some say conditioner helps a ton, some say it throws off your pH balance and to never do it. Some people say coconut oil is natural and amazing, some people say it clogged their pores and was a horrible experience. ALL OF THESE CONTRADICTIONS and I still have no idea what I'm doing. I want a smooth, clean shave without getting a yeast infection or screwing up the chemicals in my vagina. Save a sister. Please help.