Can't masturbate??!

Question

Okay I know I'm young, 14. I really just want to see what it feels like?! I know I just need to practise and discover my body but legit nothing is working 😥 I can put my finger up there and it's so tight and so uncomfortable and the pressure doesn't make it any better :/// help!!!

Answer

You probably want to go for clit stimulation instead. The majority of women actually don't orgasm from putting anything inside of them- it's from rubbing their clit. I did NOT like penetration until I was in my twenties and actually having sex. You can do this with your hand, or a vibrator. You can also use an adjustable shower head in the bath tub for a similar effect. Good luck!

Answer

Hi, I actually first started masturbating when I was 13, and that's common. I recommend watching something that really turns you on AKA(sex scenes in a movie, porn, fifty shades of grey etc.) and then right after you watched it then start masturbating, rub your clit horizontally or in circles. When i first started masturbating, I actually couldn't use my fingers, but pens worked for me, and then as I got better I started adding more, but make sure the pens are clean!

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