So my hubby just got back from a 2 week trip for the military. We were out with our kids in tow running errands yesterday and my husband and I were talking while the kids were watching their movie in the car. Out of nowhere he says I have to tell you I vowed to myself and you now to you that I will not masterbate anymore. I literally laughed out loud at this bc he knows idc about it as long as it's not to someone else or it's in place of having a sex life with me. I mean it's his body it's not my place to tell him when or if he's allowed to please himself. He said he doesn't care he won't do it bc he feels it's not ok when I'm here for him whenever he wants to have sec with me (within reason as we have 2 children and I'm pregnant again). He continued to explain saying he is lucky to have such a beautiful sexy wife who he is insanely attracted to and who is equally attracted to him, he said he feels it lessens the importance of or intimacy and that's not right. (His words)

I understand what he's saying and it's very sweet but I honestly don't know where it came from. I've NEVER EVER told him or set any rules for masterbating or porn he's always known I may not love it but it's not my place to tell him he can't touch his own body. I feel like he thinks it bothers me but it doesn't. I know he doesn't do it frequently or even watch porn at all but I feel like he thinks that I think he does but idk why.