I cannot post this out enough. I finally found out the sex at 20 weeks. We are having a boy! I never thought pregnancy would be so hard. Fighting through sleepiness. Then to have sleepless nights. Pains from stretching. Itchy skin! Breakouts then beautiful skin back to breakouts again. Options from everyone and they're mother. Crying. Non stop. I cried watching Juno for crying out loud! Getting my feelings hurt to feeling rage. I've become a little monster. But then I feel his kicks and remember to slow down, take a deep breath because these 20 weeks will go by so fast. I need to cherish this experience and enjoy having my baby literally attached to me always. Pregnancy is not pretty, the experience of creating life is. I'm blessed. But I sure am learning the hard way!