I'm mostly just posting this to get it out of my head.

I went to my cousin's wedding on Saturday. it was nice with lots of family. I saw relatives I haven't seen since last year which was great. I got tons of congratulations and questions about the baby. When my aunt got there she gave me a hug and the first thing and only thing she said to me was "I am so sorry." My SO thought maybe she meant for making me get up but the way she touched my belly as she said that and how she looked almost disgusted by my belly makes me think she definitely meant about being pregnant. I was to surprised to say more than "we're very happy."

I know she hated being pregnant all three times and never wants her kids to have babies, she used to tell me all the time. It's really upsetting because even the my cousin's new wife sat and talked to me about her tips for having boys. I don't go seeking compliments or anything like that but I can't imagine telling anyone I'm sorry they're pregnant