Divorce question

No judging please 😕 How will the process work if i left him 6 years ago ?! I have full custody of my daughter . I was 15 and he was 23 when we got married , he manipulated me and brain washed me now that im 22 and fully understand everything, he was doing it for his own privileged on not getting locked up because the cops did look into it since we had a age difference he did get lovked up though but we did this after he got out after two years . He lied to me about his age and my dumbass believed him. Anyways how will the divorce process work if he lives in another state ?! He told me before i left him that if i wanted to divorce him that i should pay for everything . Tbh i cant afford a divorce rn , can i get a fee waiver for it ?! How long does it take until u get the divorce ?! Is it a long process?! . Im desperate here :( what do yall suggest i do ?!