He Can't find my clit

So I'm trying to explain to my bf that there is no way that I -PERSONALLY- can cum by only vaginal sex. I would tell him play with my clit lick my clit CLIT CLIT CLIT. THEN one day he said he can never find it

So I'm my opinion I know every vag is different but mine is ugly. My mother told me that when I was little. Pretty sure my bf thinks so and I know so to my my inner lips are kinda big and they hang out and my clit is average size there's nothing wrong with it.i felt some type of way when he said that in my mind I'm thinking he has to go threw a jingle of vag meat to find my clit like ..😔