Trying to conceive

Sara

I have been trying to conceive for awhile now and no luck I'm just curious some people say you should do it as much as you can while others say every other day just curious which one is better ? I've been trying to not care either way if I get pregnant and relax but it's so hard :-( just looking for some support we have been trying on and off for a few years husband 31 and I'm 29!