Ladies, my husband and I could definitely use some words of encouragement! We recently made the decision to start trying for a family! We've tried one month so far and it was negative. In the time waiting to try again were back to wondering if were ever going to be "financially ready." we've got a savings plan already started and are trying to be as prepared as we can be but our family gets in our heads. (they are very "by the books") basically making it sound like we need to be rich to have a family. did anyone have to overcome this or was nervous?? please be kind! I know this is a sensitive subject!