Ugh what's going on!!??

Karyn
Af didn't show on 9/3 (not complaining) but today I'm 16 dpo and still getting BFN..if I'm pregnant shouldn't I be getting a BFP by now?? Also I usually don't have cm (not noticeable anyways) before Af and for the past 4 to 5 days it's been creamy and a lot..so confused 😕