So my baby dads fiancé said she wanted to get together and talk before we have our kids meet. Basically to make a log story short, he cheated on her with me, I didn't know until after I had a baby with him. I told her because he lied to me and said he did. She's been super nice, wanted the kids to meet, even offered to help plan my sons birthday party. Sooo this was the last I convo we had. We had planned to meet up but something came up. She did tell me she's trying to meet with me without letting him know. Should I contact her and just be like "hey just wanted to see if you still wanna meet up?" Or just let her be the one to contact me?