Feeling frustrated

My 1yo will not eat any table food except for toast (by himself). He'll eat eggs and fruit only if I feed it to him because he doesn't like the wet feeling on his hands. I try to make different things for him but he never wants it. He will only eat baby food pouches and baby oatmeal. He's only got half of a tooth right now and it currently teething. He refuses to hold his bottle or sippy cup. I'm feeling so frustrated and feeling like such a failure...