So my nana and my dads girlfriend wanted to plan my shower. And I thought that was cool. But it's now September and they haven't really done anything but talk about it. They haven't even asked me for a guest list or anything. I have a lot of people asking me about this thing, including my aunt. Last night I talked to her and I figured out a place to have it. So I told my nana and my dads gf. They didn't like that my aunt was getting involved and basically jumped down my throat about it. So my nana called me today to apologize for being rude last night and we started talking about it again, she told me she didn't want to spend a ton of money renting a room out, which is fine, except I'm not worried about money. I just want everyone to have enough space and be comfortable. I want to tell my nana that I want to just plan it myself but I don't want to hurt her feelings. This thing is stressing me out 🙄