IM EXPECTING!!!!!! ...to be let down again🤦🏻‍♀️ please read

Tasia

AF was due for me anytime between Sep1-Sep3rd, Granted it's only the 5th but she still hasn't showed. Not getting my hopes up because...well we all know how it goes. however, I typically only get cramps on the day I start my period, when I tell you I had the worst cramps the morning of the 3rd, maybe only two or three long ones but I was hunched over as it was very painful but no bleeding. Today my boobs feel a little sore on the sides, but honestly I wouldn't have noticed if I hadn't touched them, but the weird thing is these little twitches and twinges in my cervix, I've never felt it before? Bc this is my 5th cycle ttc, I'm all too familiar with the disappointment and feeling of sheer failure when you see your stark white FRER, I won't test again unless AF is a week late, that would not be normal for me. I get more and more discouraged every month and ready to say fuck it. Any comments, suggestions, or advice is welcome and appreciated.

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Ma

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I have been getting the twitches in my cervix as well thought that was weird had been trying for 6 months just decided to give up tonight tired of crying. As well as the heartbreak of my sister being pregnant as well as my brothers girlfriend tired of being told " it would be so cool if all three of you were pregnant at the same time " if you decide to test keep us updated

Ma

Makayla • Sep 6, 2017
Thanks for the encouraging words baby dust to you as well

Ta

Tasia • Sep 6, 2017
Yeah that's definitely annoying, but I will say what has helped me relax with the process is stopped everything extra, no opks, nothin. All I use is this app and regularly BD. But I'm starting to think I ovulate later than what I think I do. But don't give up if it's what you want. It will happen❤️ baby dust to you girly

Je

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don't worry. I got my first bfp a week and half later my period was due.

Je

Jessie • Sep 6, 2017
yes I got a bfn. I was so shocked

Ta

Tasia • Sep 6, 2017
Thank you, did you test before then?

Re

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Don't stress it mama!!!!! What you're saying sounds promising!!! Baby dust to you, wait a few more days then test!!! I didn't get my BFP until I was basically a week late so everyone is different. Just wait it out, write down your symptoms and take it easy for now. Take prenatals just in case cause honestly it won't hurt you!

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Red • Sep 6, 2017
I'll post a pic of my very first or second hpt so you can see it

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Red • Sep 6, 2017
With my first pregnancy no.....I was in denial about being late on my period and didn't test until I was a week late and got a strong positive and my only symptoms were extreme fatigue and I mean extreme in every sense and severe mood swings. With this one I tested 3 days late and got a SUPER faint line to the point I chalked it up as a negative cause you couldn't see it unless you had my vision lol a week later it finally started to get dark

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Tasia • Sep 6, 2017
I've been taking prenatals, woman's 1 a day vitamins, and folic acid for a couple months now. Did you test before u were a week late with your first?