Drinking and bf

So I have never been a drinker and never will be. Yes I have had a handful of nights with my friends that I did get too tipsy never drunk/never got sick. But I'm also the girl that has gone out and drank water on the rare occasion I go out with friends (just girls same bf since hs). Well my bf's family is different than mine. They are big drinkers (always wine at dinner and all but that's not my family). My bf does drink he used to drink a lot more but I told him that I don't like it and that it's not good (we are still underage but he lives with people over 21). Well my friends bf doesn't drink at all. Honestly I wish he didn't drink at all. Does anyone relate, do I just have to deal with this?