So my friend is hosting a baby shower for me and I'm excited about it- however I really want a coed one with kids allowed to be there (I have two kids) she is thinking all woman and I guess I just really want my kids being included (8 and 10) plus a lot of people I feel won't be able to come without kids being allowed ..how would you all bring it up? she loves to plan so I super appreciate it I just want a couple changes...I also have another friend willing to help her