Hey ladies,

My friend asked me a question Ive shared my opinion on it with her already,but want to know if I was wrong. My friend have been with the same guy for 8 yrs she has 4 girls buy him all back to back . She isn't married to him, but calls herself his wife. She asked me my how long is too long to be with someone before marriage as well as my perspective on her relationship.

My answer was: You all are happy I know that ,but you also have to take some time out for yourself. You have 4 girls your oldest is only 6 youngest 2 mths. Marriage I feel like who wants to be a girlfriend forever and you have his daughters yes,but lets build more. In my opinion after 3 yrs is a good time to be engaged and set a date for the wedding. I've been with the same man for 10 yrs now and before the engagement and wedding I never called myself his wife I feel as it wasn't official yet. Do not get me wrong I've always done the things Im supposed to as a women, hints he's been around 10yrs. Give me opinions please.