How?????

Question

Sometimes I wonder how it's so easy for people to get pregnant, or accidentally get pregnant, while I sit here, mourning the loss of my first baby, and trying and trying with no luck to get pregnant again. It's just not fair.

Answer

You really shouldn't compare your misfortune to someone else's unexpected blessing. Most of the time people get pregnant "on accident" because they aren't stressing themselves out to the max ttc. The month we quit trying was the month I got pregnant. I quit using ovulation test  We had sex when we wanted not by a schedule and sure enough we got pregnant! And now I'm pregnant with a really unexpected baby (we were using protection but it failed I'm guessing (obviously)) so I'm just gonna be having another baby and I'm happy. I've gone through miscarriage and had to try for a long time and when I finally quit I got pregnant. It's out of your hands you CANT MAKE IT HAPPEN. I get so annoyed seeing women post crap like this and about "stupid teens who don't deserve babies" like nobody else's fertility affects yours, so don't compare their blessings to your misfortune.

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Girl...I read a post on here a few days ago from a girl who was traumatized because she was pregnant and her bf pulled out and came on the outside. She posted the BFP and all....like what in the hell?? How?? Month after month my SO intentionally tries to put a baby in me and some people get pregnant by accident??? The biggest mystery...how can it be so easy for some people 😭

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i feel the same way.. ttc for our rainbow

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