Some times I feel like my boyfriend will seam me attracted but most times I feel like I'm not attractive enough for him. I've even started wearing more make up, I bought a sexy bra and a body suit, I've tried fixing my hair super sexy, and extra things like that. But it doesn't seam to work. I also feel disconnected sometimes. And it's off and on. We've been dating 9 months and I did talk to him about it last month and I thought he understood but I don't think he is taking me seriously. What do I do? How can I help him understand? Or how can I get his attention?