Gender reveals seem like all the rage these days, so I was curious if anyone else is planning to let it be a surprise on delivery day?

We didn't find out with our first two children. To be honest, that moment when my then-husband told me what the gender was, after labor was finally over, is one of my favourite things about the whole delivery process. I'm one of those people that LOVES surprises though, so it's like the best surprise of life to me.

I can see how it's much easier to buy things and decorate a nursery if you know. We just did neutral colours and it was fine. We had a boy first and then a girl, and we definitely didn't "redo" the nursery for her anyway (they were less than 2 years apart).

This is my new husbands first, and he's fine with it being a surprise as well (although he also loves the idea of gender reveal parties, so I think he's a bit torn). I think we will just do neutral colours (the nursery will be woodland theme anyway, so predominantly browns, greens, and greys) and since my family thinks it's bad luck to buy gifts before the baby is born, I know we will get lots of blue/pink stuff either way, after the birth.

So who else is waiting it out? If you are finding out ahead of time, do you plan to do a big reveal?