Baby shower for #2

Jessica

So my first girl was born in April of 2016, now I'm due with girl number 2 in November of 2017. No one has offered to do a baby shower. Or even a baby sprinkle. I'm not offended, I just want to hear thoughts on it! I know they are both girls, but they are being born in different seasons so I definitely need new clothes for this girl. And obviously the staple diapers, wipes, etc.