So I'm 16w5d pregnant and we just got engaged. We had talked about getting married in December or January before our son arrives in February but the more I think about it the more I want our son to actually be there and be in the pictures. But everyone is upset with me now, saying we should be married before the baby comes and be a family unit. I dont want to dissapoint everyone (my fiance included) but when I picture my wedding day, I picture the 3 of us not the 2 of us and my big huge belly. Anyone have personal experience and regret doing it one way or another or even just opinions?