I am 34 weeks with my second baby. My son is 15montgs and 30 lbs (big boy!). Today every time I lifted him I would get sharp pains in my belly but unfortunately I don't have any other choice but to life him and care for him. Once my husband got home today (he was on a business trip since Tuesday) I pretty much let him do all the lifting. Towards the end of the evening he had the nerve to come out to me (he has been home 3 hours) and say "ok I'm done you're up". It pissed me off. I picked up the baby got him ready for bed etc. and made him a bottle. I handed him to my husband so I could go look for his frog for that he sleeps with but I couldn't find the damn frog. My husband has the nerve to yell from the nursery "just get in here I'll look- I don't think u understand what I'm telling u when I'm telling u I'm about to break I'm so exhausted"......ummmmm are u fucking with me right now!? That's all. Just needs to vent- please tell me all men are pussies like this