My husband makes me feel so awful about myself. His chore is normally the dishes and mins is laundry. He told me if I want another cat that I will have to start doing dishes and he does laundry. I said that's fine. Well I came home from a long shift at work last night and he wanted me to do the dishes. I said I would after I had a break first. Well, I decided that I would just do them this morning because I was too tired last night. I woke up this morning because my dogs were barking and I get up and he has been cleaning house and is doing the dishes. He is clearly mad at me and I told him to stop and I would do them. He said not and just kept going. He NEVER did the dishes when I asked him to, he always did them when he wanted to. I don't see why I can't be the same. I don't see why everything I do has to be on his terms. Gosh forbid I come home tired and just want to sleep. But he makes me feel so bad about myself. Like I am the worst wife.