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is having sex your first time painful?

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for me it was only painful because I was so tense. if I had relaxed it wouldn't have hurt. and lots of lube and lots of foreplay is very important

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No. Sex is not supposed to be painful. When you are mentally ready your body will self lubricate and your vagina will expand. It may cause some discomfort because you're basically shoving a big object in there, but in my opinion and in my experience it did not hurt because I was truly ready and wanting of it. On a scale of 1-10 it was probably a .5 of pain.

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No it wasn't at all, if you spend lots of time kissing and cuddling, doing all the foreplay type stuff it's heaps more relaxing. I reckon the best way is to pretend like you're not there for sex, and then you will get super excited and open up and making your own lubricant and he will slide on in, starting off slow rather than thrusting the whole thing in at once! 😊

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It depends on your body and how well you know the person. Some women don't have closed hymens when they have sex the first time so the pain would be less/nonexistent. It also depends on how comfortable and relaxed you are. The guy should make sure you are completely ready(nice and wet either via lube or your own natural lubrication) before entering you. The size of him will matter and you will have to adjust. But once the initial shock/pain wears off you should be fine.

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For me it was

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I like pain so Lls

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My first time hurt, but not THAT bad. I was really nervous and tense, but as soon as I was able to relax it felt fine. Not great, but he wasn't exactly good in bed 😂

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it was, he was large and i was all tensed up

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Yep. How painful depends on his size too.

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