last year I lost a daughter at 20 weeks, I am now 28 weeks with another little girl due December 4th having the baby shower October 28th. we named our baby shower Oktoberfest Baby Bash (hubby's idea) . we want this baby shower to be a coed celebration. so I started looking up ideas with sunflowers and pumpkins and beer mug center pieces. I show hunny and he says "we aren't having her in October, why all the pumpkins"? says we should do her room theme owls. I don't disagree I just thought the way the invites look you go off that. so I'm not very creative and need ideas . please any ideas help advice would be awesome