Miscarriage- Emotions running high

Lani

Well we went for our first ultrasound with our first child! 12 weeks along but doctor couldn't find a heartbeat. Said the baby looked about 9 weeks along. Most awful feeling ever!! Going to do one more ultrasound in two days to make sure and then going to do a d&c; two days after that! Any advice? I think the worst part was clearly seeing the baby on the ultrasound! I could see me baby but was being told it was dead 😢!