Any fellow Scorpio females in a relationship with a Taurus male? Any tips on how to understand this man?

I've been dating him for a couple of months now 7 in October. Clearly he takes things super slow, although I've met his family & we've spent most of the summer together he hasn't really made it official. We're sort of going with the flow. Over time I feel he's becoming more and more distant. I feel taken for granted a lot. If I talk to him about it he gets defensive and makes me feel like what I feel is just nagging or complaints- I don't feel like I'm heard. I've changed and put so much of my trust in this guy- he asked me to let go being distrustful & possessive & I've been working so hard at it. I'm trying everything to be the girl that he wants but when I need something from him, I always get shut out. He barely talks to me via text when we used to be so close. I recently got laid off and he doesn't really even bring it up, barely has show support. Feel like there's a massive communication hole but if I say something it's like I'm pushing him away further and further because he's just not about it. He says he's going through family problems but won't trust me to tell me what they are; doesn't trust me with his feelings.

Most days now I'm walking around confused & I cry a lot because I've never been great at being in a grey area. My intuition is telling me he's not feeling me anymore/ he wants to end it. I feel so taken for granted, like I don't matter. Like I prioritize him & care so much- go above and beyond but I can't even get a goodnight text without feeling like he's doing it forced.

Any advice? I rarely put up with guys or people like this. I usually cut it off. I just was so sprung in the beginning because he was so loving & appreciative & warm. I thought that's who I was going to be dating. I feel so unloved.