HELP am I over reacting. ??

Am I wrong ?? So he has been extra iffy, I found phone number in his car on papers I found about 4, when I asked him about it he insulted me and said I was crazy... Yesterday I tracked his location and he was at a nail and beauty spa I freaked out he didn't answer the few times I called him and I was so upset he then proceeded telling me he was at ups which I don't believe because he doesn't know anything or what to do about ups, his boss is in Spain for the weekend and he told me he was with his boss but his boss isn't in town.. there is a lady there who's Chinese and beautiful nice body nice curves wears very tight clothes and heels most of the time, she's maybe in her early 30's... one day I showed up to surprise him and she came outside and walked and looked inside my car at me and my son and walked away???? She knew who I was but it made no sense ??? then today the power went off and they work in a warehouse so of course it's very dark... he stayed there for 4 hours with no power doing nothing ? What made him want to stay? And why isn't he making an attempt to come live with me and find a job over here someone please help? No I can't just pop up either he lives two hours away now... in la and me near muscoy... I do drive and he does as well he has a very nice car ect he is the type of person capable of anything but I don't know someone please help !!!!