Is it Selfish??

Question

So I JUST had my daughter 3 months ago. And now I've taken a pregnancy test, and its positive. 
My SO and I decided our plan from the begging was: 
If I got pregnant I'd get an abortion due to our financial stability situation.
Which as a broad general idea I am COMPLETELY pro-choice. 
Yet personally FOR MYSELF, I don't feel that it's right to terminate a life inside for my wrong behavior upon myself.
However, I'm having guilty feelings because I know I should be spoiling and taking care of my 3 month old baby girl & I feel like my SO will regret this baby in the future.
But I ALSO feel like if I do go through with getting an abortion... I will live with that memory every single day of the rest of my life knowing we could have had a 2nd child.
Someone please help, or throw some advice. I'm really in a sh*thole right now. I will take anything even if it's brutal advice. 
Thanks guys 
~Duro

Answer

In my own opinion it is selfish. I am completely pro choice I must add. As in, you can do what you want but if it was me, I'd feel selfish. Mostly because I would know if I didn't want a child I would be on birth control. You kinda were asking for it in my opinion.

Answer

Its hard to give advice on such a personal choice. Talk to your husband and see what he thinks. Tell him how you feel. In the end its really how you feel about you and your body. 
Make a list of pros and cons.  
Pro: be done with babies right away if you only wanted two; have lots of the baby stuff already; they will be close in age (likely to get along); they can entertain each other; you won't feel after abortion guilt 
Cons: tighter financially; less attention for first baby; running after a toddler  while caring for baby; less body healing after first pregnancy; might feel guilty for keeping baby (feel your husband didn't want this, made a bad family choice) 
Each choice comes with its own hand basket of guilt and pros and cons. Let your husband have input but he doesn't control what you do with your body. And that is still being pro-choice if you ask me.

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I'm also pro choice, if you and your SO think that it isn't the best idea for you and your family right now then I would abort. If you know that you can't financial take care of another child then I think it's the right thing to do, don't feel guilty about it. And if you wanted to you could go the adoption route, personal for me that would be more on my conscious knowing that my baby is out there somewhere with maybe not the best parents. I would feel better just having abortion. This is just my opinion on things and I hope it helped! Good luck to you and your family!

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