Husband is total jerk day after sex

I feel that my husband will do anything to have sex with me, but once we have sex, he's a total jerk after. I almost feel used every time. He doesn't text or call me at all during the day. Doesn't really talk much or anything until we lay in bed. Then he comes all sweet trying to have sex. I'm just sick of that. In also sick of caring when he really doesn't. I always feel hat I'm annoying him every time I try to talk about an issue or oven up about this.