sex confusion

i am married for 9 years, hubster is the only one that cums and enjoys himself. he never gives me a chance to enjoy or climax. his thing stays bent down when his put on unlike others whose things goes up and hits the ryt spot. i have started talking to a guy at work who i believe has given every girl a perfect orgasm and i am getting attracted to him. i am dreaming about trying him out once just to get that satisfaction feeling. everytime i think of trying him out, i get so put on. the problem is, should i try him and keep it away from hubster or stick it and let him enjoy it himself.