Do your orgasms feel the same when you masturbate vs when you have sex?

So, ive been masturbating for quite a while,.. my clit and my imagination are my best tools and i can clearly feel when i cum, when i orgasm. But during sex, whether it was with my ex or my current so, i rarely get that same feeling. Ive felt that same orgasm feeling maybe like 10times over 3years during sex... does that mean im not cumming the other times? I mean im always super wet and dripping, exhausted and usually satisfied but i dont reach that peak where i can feel: my vagina beating with my heart as i cum.. when my clit is so sensitive i cant even touch it.. anyone else? Any ideas as to why? Ive been with 5 guys, including a threesome and still rarely get that feeling