Divorce experience?

I don't know where to post this-

Any mom's out there been through a divorce? Or any divorce lawyers?

You don't have to tell me what you went through that made you want a divorce because I will probably make the depression worse.

What is your advice when meeting with a divorce lawyer? What should I expect?

We don't own a lot- rent our townhouse, everything else is clearly his or mine even bank stuff, and our cars are separately in our own names. The biggest thing would be our daughter who I want full custody of. Possibly small visitation but not a lot.

Thanks in advance.