father in law from hell.

Hey ladies,

My father in law and i dont have a good relationship before i had my son i wanted to be accepted by my boyfriend's family but its gotten to the point where i dont care anymore... they've done nothing but cause fights with me , bash me , talk down to me etc. And I'm over it... he didn't wish my son a happy 1st birthday which is his grandson , he told me he didnt wanna come to his party anymore , I'm selfish , ignorant and self centered all cause i and his daughter (we used to be bestfriends) got into a arguement because I apparently treat my boyfriend's other 2 kids like shit. I shouldn't be a stepmother etc

Which I love those kids like my own I get up with them in the morning

Cook them lunch dinner

Make sure they brush their teeth really good

Help with hw

We got into a arguement cause I wanted something done and he went behind my back and said yes after i and my bf said no.

Etc etc

 He won't allow me in his house ,  wouldn't allow me to go to my stepson birthday party cause agian me and his daughter got into a arguement over her sticking her nose in mine and my bfs business .

If he sees he won't talk to me

He ignores my child

Never likes my pics of the baby

But will jump right on the pics of stepkids if i post.

He ended up coming to the party but didn't talk to.me.at all and he was in MY HOUSE also I always cause the drama ....like riiight.

It's just to the point where he makes me sick my BF doesn't really say anything... what would u Do ?? (he said something the last fight but he never said anything to his sister saying what she said to me but if i say something i get bitched at. his sister's 27 yrs old living with mommy and daddy cheats on her bf left and right but WANTS to say I'm a horrible step mom I'm 23 with my own kid own house own car etc. she also almost got cps called on my bf while cps showed up due to the kids.mom