1st birthday party ideas

Cheryl • So blessed

ok so yes im already planning my sons birthday party and cake. i wanted to do the party at an indoor playground cause most of his cousins are like 3years old and up so wanted to cater for them as well. and then have a bbq at home after. my hubby thinks its too much and he wont remember blah blah. what are your 1st birthday ideas at home or hired place?