I am starting to think in order to be happy, I need to choose between living a quiet, simple lifestyle and my husband, and that breaks my heart. We've been together throughout everything for the past 8 years.

But I'm starting to lose my mind. His friends and family constantly want to socialize on the weekends and after work, and it makes me miserable. He gets cabin fever, whereas I'm a homebody who could stay home for several days without leaving the house. We don't even spend one weekend day at home before he gets anxious to go somewhere.

I'm never going to enjoy socializing, and he doesn't see anything wrong with having multiple nights out per week. I'm getting more and more miserable each year. I love him with all my heart but is this the end? He's never going to love living a quiet life in the country the way that I do.