I feel unwanted in my husband's family and unloved by my husband.... I would leave if getting a divorce wasn't such a big deal.. plus I have no where to go.. And I want things to work.. We have only been married for a few months and I wish it never happened sometimes.... If divorce was out of the question, what should I do instead?? Edit: I have talked to my husband about it many times, he's against marriage counseling (as if right now) and when I say I'm not happy he says I need to stop stressing over worldly things and all that matters is where we'll go in the afterlife, he also makes sure I know he and I won't be together in heaven so all we need to worry about in our relationship is to keep each other in check and to reproduce..