This guy I'm sleeping with doesn't want anyone to know. Personally, that doesn't offend me any so I'm not bothered by it. So when a coworker of mine tries to hook us up he'll tell him "oh no, I can't I don't see her like that. I see her as more of a daughter figure than a sexual partner.". Now sometimes he brings up the fact that he's 12 years older than me. However, he can't truly mean that he sees me as a daughter figure if he's willing to call me, flirt with me and fuck me without anyone knowing. Right?