anxiety

so ive dealt with really bad anxiety especially in big settings. when in school i was classified as special ed for an emotional disorder. anyways the other day my boyfriend and i went to eat with his dad and his dads girlfriend as well as her friend after we helped them move. the friend was something else like she was rude and would say things about me not helping because the girlfriend didn't want me to help since im pregnant but i did anyways. so we went to get food and the place was so loud and packet and im not good in groups so i started shutting down. they started getting drunk and the conversation kept being about me like shocked by the age difference in my relationship and then just started saying how i should do more. my boyfriend at first went along with them saying i don't do much when i actually do. and when i guess he coulf see it was getting to me like being the center of attention he tried to say how i do my best but even that wasnt enough. i tried not to cry so bad i wanted to run into the restroom but i didnt. i just cant deal with being tje center of attention and the stuff they said . as soon as i said my age it went down hill. worse 2 maybe 3 hours of my life