Anal sex

Harley

In my past I've had anal sex once. It was with an abusive man who didn't care if it hurt me, which it did. Now that I've found my fiancé he really wants to have anal sex. We have tried previously but the initial entrance is always too painful for me and I make him stop. Does anybody have any tips on how to make the process less painful and more enjoyable on my part??? I'm open to any and all suggestions.