I am so done with my mother.

I want birth control but as of now she is doing EVERYTHING to make sure that doesn’t happen.

When I was sixteen, she lied to me (I knew she was lying, I’m not an idiot) by telling me you’re “not allowed to go to the clinic until you’re sixteen” so I said whatever I can wait.

I’m sixteen now and I bring it up and NOPE that’s not happening.

I have no idea what to do. I am sexually active currently relying on condoms and I WANT TO BE SAFE!!! I have nobody else to go and help me with this. Please please please help. I have to get the copper IUD due to health conditions and this is why matters are worse.

Please, I am trying so hard to be safe. But she is just absolutely.... ugh.