Am i overreacting?? gotta know before I flip out on him.. again..

gonna lose my mind here. I already have sensory overload, depression, anxiety and unstable moods. I was on a VERY helpful medication but have recently stopped taking it due to being pregnant.

I am doing fine so far but can slowly feel it coming on again.

I work full time, pregnant and have a 7 and 2 yr old. My life is constant from the moment i wake up til the moment I lay down. (and exhausted all day long). I get up at 7 and dont get home until 7.. bed ASAP. My husband works nights so he sleeps until about 1030 leaves for work around 12 and doesn't get home til late. Then stays up for awhile cuz he can't sleep..

He doesnt do much of anything around the house because he's "tired and his back (scoliosis) hurts".. like really? I'm tired and in pain too. among other things.He does things occasionally (he's done dishes 2x this month.. first time in a LONG time, sweeps and mops.. not much of anything else.. MAYBE laundry) but I am always having to wait until im this fed up until he does something again .. then it lasts two random days and hes back to his lazy ass self. i have explained I do stuff EVERYDAY. including but not limited to- dishes, laundry, sweeping, cleaning up dog pee and poop, trash, tending to kids, vacuuming, cleaning clutter, cleaning all parts of the house. ECT normal stuff I should be doing..

he cooks dinner on his days off but never puts it away or cleans up after. today the dogs knocked over the pan of veg oil he didnt put away from last night and its alllll over my house. dishes piled in the sink. so i had to throw then them in a box to get the sink open to mop. that made me think fuck it ill just get rid of the dishes all together. and use paper product. but that brings up damn it we will have more trash.. which I handle remember!

am i overreacting.. I can't tell honestly I think this is complete bullshit because I SHOULDNT have to be the only one doing any of this.