What would you think of this??

My BF of 2.5yrs has never paid his way , always loses or forgets his bank card when we go out. He has been living with me and still has not paid his way.

Let's bear in mind he has never booked anything , no bday or xmas for our first xmas together he went out with his mates etc..he lies a lot about stupid things!!

Recently he's still losing the bank card etc and has never took me away or holiday etc! Now he has a stag weekend abroad and will manage to book that and pay for it!!!

I think this just shows pure disrespect to me and like he's using me therefore I think if he actually goes then I'm leaving him??? What do u ladies think? X