Insensitive husband during pregnancy. Needing advice 😔

Nicolle • Brazilian • Married • Momma to a sweet baby boy and a little girl on the way 🥰

Hey ladies, have any of you had a husband who was a bit insensitive during your pregnancy? I was a stay at home wife (per his request) and now at 20 weeks pregnant I got a job because I couldn’t stand all the nagging from him. He used to say since he had a job and made the money, I had to clean the house everyday and cook and do this and that.. (we also have a roommate who is a pig and bitches at my husband when I don’t clean his stuff as well).. SO I GOT A JOB, I hate working but I’ve never been happier! So fast forward to a couple hours ago we laid down in bed ( we haven’t had sex in a week and I’m in the mood...pregnancy hormones, ya know) and he used to ALWAYS be in the mood. Lately he hasn’t been affectionate at all, he hasn’t been texting me during the day to see how I’m doing, (he used to do this in the 1st trimester when nausea was very bad, and then suddenly stopped doing it a couple weeks ago), he hasn’t been giving me many kisses and seems to not be interested with me at all. Tonight I told him how I felt, this pregnancy has taken a toll on me already so early on, I feel ugly all the time, unattractive, My bump is starting to show so my body is changing and I just look in the mirror and don’t find myself attractive. So I tell the hubby this and he gets mad at me saying “don’t start with this bullshit. How do you want me to come home and enjoy being with you and hangout with you if you annoy me with this”. He then turned to the side, and fell asleep. Words cannot describe how I feel right now as I type this, but he won’t be hearing a single word come out of my mouth until he apologizes. I have been feeling so alone this pregnancy, and it sucks!!

P.S. I think pregnancy is beautiful and after a miscarriage I am very very blessed to be carrying my healthy baby boy! Just wanted to make that clear!! I know these hormones will leave me alone eventually. 😂😂

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