Background: We have a known male fertility issue but I've never been officially tested for any infertility issues. We have a son that took us 11 months to conceive and have been tying for number 2 for over a year.

I have an appointment to see my OB (whom also delivered our son) in a few weeks and my fear is that my concerns will be lessened by my doctor because "we already have one kid". He's a fabulous doctor so I'm not looking to switch. This about MY insecurities and being unsure of the unknown.

I have this appointment for fertility, but I'm unsure how to start the conversation or what questions to be asking when I get there. I'm a nervous wreck! Does anyone have advice on how to approach my visit?