looking for someone who is TTC and NOT due October 1st. we could add each other on FB and provide support for each other :) I started up my in business and my fiance has his own business as well. We have been financially stable and have a home and three dogs and a cat. all that's missing is a baby. this was our first official month of trying. if you want to count the months that we 'just so happen" to be horny on my fertility window then we have been trying for four months.